Friday, October 22, 2004

In Best Thing(s)

I do not know if we can be faulted with regard to the way we spend our earnings for the family. Most of us indulge in buying appliances, jewelries, toys, etc. as much as we can afford and treat our own families extravagantly when we are on vacation. One reason is that we would like to compensate for our long absence and our way of expressing our love for them within a short period of time as we know that at a certain date we will again leave them to work again abroad. Another thing is that we want our kids to taste or experience those things which we did not have when we are growing up. This cycle continues over the years and now we have realized that we should have read the books of these people very much earlier. Some of our colleagues here are almost nearing retirement but they said all is not too late.

Now, I am planning to have these books:

“Wealth Within Our Reach” by Francisco Colayco
"Pwede Na! The Complete Pinoy Guide to Personal Finance" by Efren Ll. Cruz.
“Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki

One of the most important things discussed in their books is the importance of achieving “Financial Literacy”. Most of us do not really know how to handle money. I also read something like (and I should have known this) after you have received your earnings it is important that you have to “pay yourself first” which is simply just what we called as “savings”. I am not saying that we have not saved before or we are we not saving something for the future. What we are not aware is that there is a better way to handle and make the most out of our savings.

Quoting Colayco he says "Achieving financial independence isn't an option, it's an obligation," he says. "Wealth generation is a lifelong process. It is something that is built over time. It is planned for, periodically adjusted and executed with a firm hand. It needs clarity of thought and vision. It needs you to be financially literate." But I am not really aiming of becoming wealthy or having too much. I would just like to have a stable source of income and be with my family, the sooner the better.

As for other things, I realized that it is also very important to invest in good health and good relationships as with family and friends. Do I need to say where I can get these information?

17 Comments:

Blogger Cerridwen said...

As long as you remember what you work hard for - your future and yourself you should be fine. (your future includes your family now) yourself is your personal well being and security when you are not able to work anymore.... the rest...you should enjoy through any means, may it be food, electronics, providing for family & friends etc)

You need to experience the reason for your hard work, for the patience you put up with working in another country... you need to feel and see that or else you will lose the incentive to work harder. It will fuel you to achieve more when you see the fruits of your labor. At the same time, remember that you will not always be healthy, you have a family and that you will get old :) smart to set aside something for those. Goodluck Santi :)

11:30 PM  
Blogger santi said...

Cerridwen,
Thanks for your advise. That's why I am trying to learn things that can be started today which could benefit myself and the family in the future.

3:57 AM  
Blogger rolly said...

Sigh*** what is pathetic is when you cannot make a savings from your salary for it is just enough. This is my sad predicament at the moment. There are so many bills I have to pay that I have named my salary as OPM - other people's money. Meaning I get my salary, then pay off debts immediately. The money just passed my hands. double sigh***

6:27 AM  
Blogger ting-aling said...

There is danger in saving for your future if you get so obsessed with the thought. There is also danger if you do not set aside money for your future. I am facing the same predicament just like everyone else. I am the opposite of my husband..he clings to every penny for "our" future. I tend to take my kids out for a treat, buy them their basic needs, give them a gift once in a while. I however make sure that these stuff never get into their heads and that life is not all about what you have and what you do not have.

I find nothing wrong if you become generous when you go home. Hey, it's making up for the time and opportunity to be with your family that you lost in exchange for a better life they have now. The opportunity for your kids to experience these things is priceless.

4:04 PM  
Blogger santi said...

Tito Rolly,
That's really sad and also true to most of us. But in these books, they discussed how to deal or make the best use of our earnings no matter how small. They are really so simple yet most of us just ignore or fail to make an effort which we should have started earlier in our lives.

That is where the importance of achieving financial literacy comes in. It is not just focusing on savings but adjusting your income to your lifestyle which you can increase as you improve your financial capacity. Most of us do the reverse and we incurred a lot of debts just to cope up with a high standard of lifestyle. I have to say that these are what they've said and not my own advise and I found them having a lot of sense.

Ting Aling,
I also do not care much about money especially spending on the needs of my kids. I just realized that I should also start something for the future. I won't really stop being generous to my family especially during vacation but I just have to be wiser and more practical now.

11:36 PM  
Blogger BongK said...

i guess it's a matter of balancing the balance sheet, although no amount of money can pay for the time lost with the loved ones, just making sure of their welfare, in consonance with the things you can give, material-wise, will make the ledger manageable.

nga pala i will be emailing you (soon) another set of songs with easy chords, just wait for it

keep on hanging there bro

2:18 AM  
Blogger santi said...

Bong,
That's a very nice description of a balance sheet, not only money-wise but also considering other aspects. You're really very supportive brod, I don't know how to thank you.

10:06 PM  
Blogger santi said...

Yes Bayi, easier said than done. I should have done it long before. Now I am trying to learn and understand more the right way to handle my earnings.

9:59 PM  
Blogger Dr. Emer said...

The Colayco book is particularly good. I recommend it. =)

12:29 AM  
Blogger santi said...

Doc,
It's the first time we saw Mr. Colayco in one of the episodes of 'Pipol' via TFC and we were also impressed.

9:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

RE: PWEDE NA! and PALAGUIN MO PERA MO! - - Financial knowledge without financial discipline would not do anyone of us good. The authors taught a lot about investments, but are they practicing it? I think that they are not. They just know how to tell things that's good theoretically. They have the concepts but I doubt if they are 'really' doing it. They are the same with Robert Kiyosaki, he is not rich before his book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

Frankly, we are guinea pigs of financial experiments that they write. They are just there to sell books. A word of caution, check on their background with regards to their financials before you believe them.

COLAYCO - How's TPG doing? (under watch list by the SEC) A book for you is "Palaguin mo pera ng TPG para mawala sa watchlist!"
CRUZ - Are you financially fit prior to entering the arena in writing books? A book for you is "Pwede ka na ba?"

We can always get better advise on those who really practiced it through biographies.

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